This world is but a canvas to our imagination.
~Henry David Thoreau
I enjoy creating an occasion to dress up. Sharing one’s passion for a vintage life is a lot of fun. Even at my small events, I encourage my guests to come in period-appropriate attire, but I do not require it. The friendship and conversation are the reason for gathering. Even if I am having just one friend for tea, you will find me laying out a simple table, and I will be dressed for the occasion. My friends would be shocked if I did otherwise. It also gives me a chance to dig out my family heirlooms and items I have collected over the years and put them to good use.
We are fortunate to live in a time where we do not have the severe classes of people as they did until the early 1900s. The industrial revolution broke down many of these walls. We now live in a time where almost anyone can experience a bit of the gilded past, be it a simple affair of leisure or a large opulent affair.
If you are not up to hosting an event, there are many you can attend that would be the perfect occasion to don a vintage-style outfit. Even if the event is not specifically “vintage,” it is appreciated by many when thought is put into what one wears for the occasion and is even looked upon as a sign of respect.
If you are just getting started there are many short afternoon events. But as you progress and find “your people,” you will discover events that last for a few days. It is a wonderful way to feel as if you really have stepped back in time.
A couple of such events that come to mind are the Jane Austen Festival in Bath, England, and the Somewhere in Time Weekend on Mackinac Island in Michigan, USA.
Outdoor dining, once reserved for wealthy landowners to enjoy on their estates, was revolutionized by Victorians. Picnicking became a way for people from every class to enjoy the pleasures of taking their meals outside.
Here are a few ideas to get you started:
Small events:
Afternoon tea, a quaint picnic or dinner for four
Afternoon needlework group, thriftiquing with a friend
A trip to a museum or to a flower show
Peruse the booths at a bazaar or attend an art exhibit
Take a tour of an historic home or visit a park or gardens
Host a card or boardgame evening or take a leisurely hike
More extravagant events and excursions with links:
Formal dinner or luncheon– break out the fancy place settings.
Join societies in your area such as an Edwardian, Regency, Victorian or Sherlock Holmes group. There are also many re-enactment groups.
Plan a garden party at a local city park. Make it a potluck to ease the planning and budget.
Design a weekend rendezvous with friends at an historic hotel. There are so many to pick from including our National Parks. The list of historic hotels in the United States and overseas is endless. Even if rooms are out of your budget they are worth visiting for a cup of tea or a meal.
Here are a few of the aforementioned historical spots (each is linked): Glacier National Park, Strater, Totten Trail Inn, The Witchery Hotel
Attend a vintage car show - bring one if you have one! A great time is had by all at the Goodwood Revival Car Show.
Ethnic celebrations – perfect for specialized outfits but I still don a Victorian/Edwardian outfit. Here is an example of one such event: Hostfest
Participate in an antique bicycle event such as Anjou Velo Vintage.
Enjoy some time at a vintage costume festival, such as those listed below:
Spend a day at the horse races. There are so many from which to choose, – there are many out there but ladies’ day at the Kentucky Derby and the Royal Ascot are a must-see. Of course, I would definitely recommend vintage over the modern-day dresses.
Hold a croquet or badminton competition.
Attend a themed ball such as The Victorian Ball.
There is no limit to what you can come up with for an event. If you are struggling, here is a wonderful excerpt from the 1897 issue of Godey’s Magazine which indicates that, despite the era, there is always a search for new ideas for entertaining:
Hostesses are always on the alert for new methods of entertaining, as the hackneyed styles are becoming tiresome. A few of the latest fails for dinners and luncheons are indicated, and such entertainments may be expensive or inexpensive, as one may desire.
THE PROGRESSIVE DINNER
The idea was evolved from Progressive Euchre. The guests are seated at small tables, as in the game, and are moved after each course. The hostess makes a signal and the guests rise, the gentlemen conducting the ladies to a table indicated, where they are received by two of the gentlemen from another table; thus there is a constant interchange of partners, which may or may not lie always desirable.
A pretty idea is to have a conundrum salad in a big bowl at the hostess’s table. Before changing the guests, each takes a lettuce leaf, to the underside of which a conundrum written on a slip of paper has been attached. In this ease the successful guessers pair off. Each table is decorated with a different color, the napery, porcelain, and flowers corresponding.
A progressive dinner may also be arranged in this way: The guests may progress by means of cards of the same color as the flowers at the table; those who draw red cards move to the jacqueminot rose table; the yellow to the jonquil table, etc.
A CONVERSAZIONE DINNER
In this form of entertainment, the subjects of conversation undergo a change with the courses. The hostess, before the arrival of the guests, decides upon the subjects. For instance, with the Blue Points, the subject introduced might savor of nautical lore; the fish course might suggest yachting and angling; the game, hunting, and roast turkey, domestic subjects; the ices, Arctic voyages; fruits, roaming in the tropics, etc., etc. A hostess prolific in ideas will be able to supply abundant subjects for discussion which will wonderfully enliven the tedium of the long course dinner.
A RAINBOW DINNER
The tables are dressed with flowers representing the colors in the rainbow, each tint being represented by a stripe of flowers upon the immaculate whiteness of the cloth; bows of the same colors are tied at the ends. As many colors as possible appear in the meats, vegetables, and salads, the brilliant red of radishes and beets, the tender green of crisp lettuce leaves and asparagus tips, the lively pink of ham boiled in champagne, the rich brown of the roasts and the various colors of the fruits, cakes, and ices all making a pleasing harmony. There are dainty little cakes frosted with delicate blue, violet, green, pink, etc.; ices running the gamut from a rich, dark red to the faintest yellows and greens, and bonbons which repeat the hues of the seven primary colors with artistic effect.
A FLOWER COURSE DINNER
The acme of elegant aestheticism is reached when the floral decorations of the table are changed with each course. With the soup, violets are the decoration; with the fish, tall Venetian glasses with long-stemmed Bermuda lilies; with the entree, tulips; with the roast, Marechal Niel roses; with the game, red azaleas; with the salad, sweet peas; and with the dessert, an avalanche of pink roses. A touch of additional extravagance is the matching of the table service for each course of flowers used.
A CELLAR PARTY
The cellar is embowered in green, and pots of flowers are placed about. There are a number of small tables, and the aim is to imitate a German beer garden. The refreshments are sandwiches of all kinds, beer and lemonade. The waiters wear white aprons, and everything is served in approved German style.
— Godey’s Magazine, 1897